Don't ever judge a person before you have walked in their shoes.

 Hello guys!

This is me Malavika and welcome back to another blog  🙋 . 

Today's topic is - Don't judge a person before you have walked in their shoes. 

Imagine if you see a woman on the streets with her child, who is begging the her mother to get her some food. You then see that the mother is checking her purse and then just sits there with her hand on the head and it seems like she cannot hear what that poor kid is saying. She then gets annoyed by her kid and scolds her and tells her to keep quiet for some time. They kid then rubbing her belly goes to a corner of the street and sits there. You think, " Hey, why isn't this lady getting her kid some food? She is such a bad mother, and she is probably lazy too, and that's why she is poor. 

Don't worry, don't lie to yourself even though you that you might have thought the same. Even I might have thought is like that, i.e, until i came across a video uploaded by a youtuber called Dharr Mann.

His videos are really inspiring and thought me many values too.

But if you go into and research or ask that lady, why she is ignoring her kid, she might say this- She is a single mother and lost her job because of the current pandemic going on. Then she ended on the streets with her kid because they couldn't afford the rent for that month. And the reason she was really annoyed, when the kid was asking is because, she did not have any more money to buy her kid some food. Also the money she had got from begging had been spent out the past few weeks and now she has no money to at least buy her kid food.

After realising something like this, you will feel miserable of what you were thinking. Even if you did not say it out loud, you can still feel pretty bad for what you said if you have humanity in you.

So what is the better way, so that we don't feel sad while thinking anything like this?

The better way is to first think, or ask about what the person is going through, that they are in such a situation.

So my friends next time, you see someone, do something you don't feel right, Just think once more, try to see it from their perspective of view. 

And next time, don't judge anyone. Cause u probably know their name,not their story. You have heard what he/she did, but not what they have gone through. And you never know, if u were in his/her shoes, you might have fell in the first step.  Cause the world might judge a person by their decision, they don't care to check the options the person had to choose the decision from. Don't be part of that world.

That is it for today guys

Until its me Malavika

Bye  bye