"Happily ever after"

 Hello friends,

This is me Malavika and welcome back to another blog by me.

Today's blog topic is nothing but the phrase 'Happily ever after'.

You might ask what is there about happily ever after...well this phrase has much more than anyone can think, well it was more than i could think! 

The greater meaning behind this phrase is that someone, lived happily ever after..not just finding a prince or winning a lottery and living happily ever after, but doing hard work and living happily ever after with its outcome. It simply means that you don't need to get into fairytales to have a happily ever after, but you can simply achieve it by hardworking. 

So many of you out there believe in fortune tellers and some of you don't believe. So say a person who believes in fortune tellers go to one of the fortune tellers and ask,"Will i be successful?". The fortune teller says yes. So imagine that after that day, that person doesn't work anymore. He quits his job and justs sits at home hoping that you will become a successful perosn. Do you think that person would become a successful person? No he won't. He just misunderstood the fortune tellers words. What the fortune teller wanted to say was like he would be successful in life if he works, and he just sits there thinking that he would get an happily ever after. 

If you have read this blog, i want you to do do 4 things - 

1) NEVER EVER be like that man, whatever your dreams are chase them until you catch them, you can rest in between but don't quit the game of chase. This is cause I want you to have a happily ever after ending for your story not the bad ending. 

2) If you liked this blog, and it does inspire you, do share it with your friends and family. 

3) If you found any mistake, or anything you would like me to improve, pls post them in the comments. Also comment what you think of the blog and i will try my best to reply them at the earliest.

4) 4th and last thing is to take care of yourself! Don't give up we can make it through this pandemic, remember we are in this together. 

That is it for today guys,

Until next time

Its me Malavika 

Take care and Byee

Learning to say 'No'

Hello guys,

This is Malavika and welcome to my blog!!

Today's topic is not some quote, but it is an important word of life- NO

I know you might be thinking why saying 'NO' is good sometimes, cause when you imagine the word 'NO' what usually comes to our minds is that 'NO' is not giving or not doing something. Well the word 'NO' is very important in life, though it is just a 2 letter word, many people, especially people who are shy find it difficult to say.

I agree that saying 'NO' sometimes when people ask for things can mean that they are not generous, but always saying 'YES' is not good either.

Imagine you have a friend who keeps asking you for things. One day she forgets her pencil, so she asks you and you give her. Next day she again forgets the pencil and you give her. This happens for days and she doesn't seem ashamed of forgetting her pencil everyday. This is because she knows you will give her a spare pencil. It is important to say NO here because only then your friend will realise her mistake and stop doing that. 

Another example is, imagine you have a younger sibling. He/She has a very annoying friend. Lets keep the name of the friend Henry. So whenever Henry comes over to your house, he always wants to come to your room, play with your stuff, and sometimes even spoils some things. You don't feel good about his/her friend. Even though everyday after Henry leaves, you tell yourself that you will tell him not to play with your stuff from tomorrow. But still next time he comes and asks if he can play with ur stuff you are not able to say 'NO'. This can be because u might feel they will think u are not generous or you don't say because you think they will feel bad. But still you have to say no or that kid will never realize his mistake and will continue doing it. 

So my friends, now i think you might have understood why the word 'NO' is very important and I hope, all you shy ones out there ( like me, yes i am shy) start using No for important stuff. 

That is it for today guys.

Until next time

Take care

Byee...

Money cannot buy everything

 Hello guys!

This is Malavika and welcome back to another blog!!

In today's topic, we will be learning something, many people know, but they don't always show it or do it.

The topic is - Money can't buy everything. 

This in simple definition means money isn't everything.

Maybe money can buy you a bed, but the bed doesn't feel comfy until you try it. Money can buy you a house, but there needs to be someone to make the house a home. Money can buy you a comfortable life, but not a healthy life. Money can make you go to a good school, but not a good educator. Money can buy you a phone, but you cannot make a call until you think about your loved ones and call them. Money can buy you a family who is with you for money, but not the loving family you will always dream for. 

Many people still think money is everything..they avoid people who don't have money.

One story is of this man, who gave his wife a birthday gift.

It was the night of his wife's birthday. He had a bag in his hand. He was going towards their apartment after his work. He was a rich person, but he married his wife form a poor family. When his wife saw him with the cover, she did not first check about what is in it, instead she welcomed her husband in the house and gave him tea and some snacks. She smiled at him and he smiled at her. Then he said," Happy Birthday Honey." and handed her the bag. She was so happy and delighted. She said," Aww thanks Honey...OMG these are tickets to Disneyland..but why did you buy these, you could have just come home...you are the biggest gift for me.." The husband laughed and said," No no, these gifts are nothing compared to what gifts you have given me." Then she said," Honey, it has been one year since our marriage, and this question has been running in my mind, why did u marry me, you could have got many more beautiful women who are form richer families, and now you also say that I am worth all THESE gifts?" Husband smiled and said, " You see, i may be rich but i wanted to lend a hand and help one of the poor families out there, and i chose your family. I may be rich, but you make me happy. I may have bought this house, but you make it a home. I may have bought food for us form the store, but you make it delicious, i may have bought us a washing machine but you do the laundry, there are so many more things that i can never buy with money for you, cause you are priceless." The wife was so happy on hearing this, and they smiled at each other and had a great trip to Disneyland the next day.

This story tells how a husband married his wife for love not money.

The world would be too good with all of the people being like him, so there will always be people who are greedy on money, but if are reading this, don't be one of them, and if you have been one of them, don't be one of them ever again.

That is it for today guys

Until Next time

Stay safe,

Bye

Don't ever judge a person before you have walked in their shoes.

 Hello guys!

This is me Malavika and welcome back to another blog  🙋 . 

Today's topic is - Don't judge a person before you have walked in their shoes. 

Imagine if you see a woman on the streets with her child, who is begging the her mother to get her some food. You then see that the mother is checking her purse and then just sits there with her hand on the head and it seems like she cannot hear what that poor kid is saying. She then gets annoyed by her kid and scolds her and tells her to keep quiet for some time. They kid then rubbing her belly goes to a corner of the street and sits there. You think, " Hey, why isn't this lady getting her kid some food? She is such a bad mother, and she is probably lazy too, and that's why she is poor. 

Don't worry, don't lie to yourself even though you that you might have thought the same. Even I might have thought is like that, i.e, until i came across a video uploaded by a youtuber called Dharr Mann.

His videos are really inspiring and thought me many values too.

But if you go into and research or ask that lady, why she is ignoring her kid, she might say this- She is a single mother and lost her job because of the current pandemic going on. Then she ended on the streets with her kid because they couldn't afford the rent for that month. And the reason she was really annoyed, when the kid was asking is because, she did not have any more money to buy her kid some food. Also the money she had got from begging had been spent out the past few weeks and now she has no money to at least buy her kid food.

After realising something like this, you will feel miserable of what you were thinking. Even if you did not say it out loud, you can still feel pretty bad for what you said if you have humanity in you.

So what is the better way, so that we don't feel sad while thinking anything like this?

The better way is to first think, or ask about what the person is going through, that they are in such a situation.

So my friends next time, you see someone, do something you don't feel right, Just think once more, try to see it from their perspective of view. 

And next time, don't judge anyone. Cause u probably know their name,not their story. You have heard what he/she did, but not what they have gone through. And you never know, if u were in his/her shoes, you might have fell in the first step.  Cause the world might judge a person by their decision, they don't care to check the options the person had to choose the decision from. Don't be part of that world.

That is it for today guys

Until its me Malavika

Bye  bye

Honesty is the best policy.

 Hello guys,

This is me Malavika and welcome to another blog of mine 😃.

So today's topic is about, an old proverb that quite dates back to the 15th century. And also i am pretty sure you all have at least heard this once atleast..

It is - Honesty is the best policy.

And before I continue, I would like to introduce one of my favorite bloggers, Elsa.

She posts small but very interesting stories in parts, greetings ( for any special events) and anything else you ask for!

The link to her blog is- https://brainybooksbyanika.blogspot.com/

So lets continue,

So many people must have heard this proverb - Honesty is the best policy. But just knowing this isn't enough. I would like ask, how many of you readers are really honest? Do comment in the comment section below.

When you are honest, you never need to worry of being caught in any crime, or anything like that. Honesty always builds a strong castle of your reputation. No one doubts you unnecessarily if you always say the truth, but if you lie more often than you say the truth, you will often see that people will doubt you if you try to say something truthfully also.

Have you heard the story of the Shepherd and the wolf?

If not it is about a shepherd who always tried to trick people by calling out to them that a wolf is coming to eat his sheep. But whenever they came running to chase the wolves away, they used to see this shepherd boy sitting there and laughing at them, joking that they got fooled by him and there really was no wolf. All the people used to go back to their homes with grumpy faces. But one day, a real wolf came to eat the shepherd's sheep. He cried out loud and shouted for people to come and help him but no one came because they thought that he was lying again. In the end the wold ate all of his sheep.

But if at all you have done something wrong, the best option is to own up about it (owning up means to admit or tell the truth that you have done something wrong)

There is a story of a girl called Alice. She was a girl who was very fond of oranges. one day some guests were coming to her house. So her mother prepared many dishes and also bought some fruits, among which were some oranges. Alice's mouth was watering when she saw the oranges so she asked her mom is she could take one. Her mother said," No dear, these oranges are for the guests, I will buy you some oranges tomorrow." She was upset with this. Later when her mother was greeting in the guests, she ran towards the kitchen, took an orange and put it in her pocket. As soon as her mother came into the kitchen, she sprinted towards the main hall to greet the guest's children. Later during the day, when she was playing with the guest's kids, she remembered about the orange. She was scared if she would mistakenly sit on it and squeeze it. She was very nervous to sit throughout the day. When the guests left, she went back to her mom and owned up about taking that orange. Her mother forgave and congratulated her for owning up to her.

So i hope that from today, you all will try to be honest.

That is it for today guys.

This is me Malavika, see you in the next blog.

Unitl then

Bye bye

Do not Judge a person by their cover.

 Hi guys,

This is me Malavika and welcome back to my blog!!

Imagine your friend's dad lost his job, and now they are in great trouble. They lost their house. Money is getting tight for them and his/her parents are working hard to at least send your friend to school. Finally the collect some money to send him/her to school. However, they cannot afford buy new dresses for him/her anymore. So he/she has to wear old dresses to school. They look shaggy and he/she looks dirty. When your friend comes to school with you, many kids and teachers start staring at him/her. Children at school start making fun of you to be with a dirty looking child. You then, for the sake of your reputation, also stop going near him/her and starts making fun of your friend in front of others. 

Now imagine if you were in this situation. How bad would you have felt?

Yes today's topic is = Do not judge the person by their cover.

The meaning of this sentence is, to not judge anyone by their looks.

Another example, is from a youtube video i saw, from a youtube channel called Dharr Mann.

The link to the video is here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BfFzCyDf0M&t=393s

Another video from that channel that is a great example of this is - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bji0cdIl9YQ

Be sure to watch both of those videos to know the stories.

So my dear readers and friends, NEVER EVER JUDGE A PERSON BY THEIR LOOKS, ONLY JUDGE THEM AFTER KNOWING THEM.

So that is it for today guys, see u in the sext blog!

Until then

Its me Malavika 

Bye Bye

A Woman = A Man

 Hello guys!

This is Malavika and welcome to my my blog!

So today, i would like to tell you about the topic, many people know but don't agree 

It is - A Woman = A Man

Well why can't they? Women aren't always those pretty pink princesses who cry when they even scratch their hand. 

Nothing exactly works the same without a woman in a man's life. They can also be police, they can also be pilots. They can be anything they want, anything they dream.

A great example is of a woman named Gunjan Saxena, have you heard this name?

There is a movie about her in netflix, so go on and watch it if you or you parents have an account.

There are many wonder women in the world, Like Kalpana Chawla, P.V Sindhu, Indira Gandhi and many more..

Well now the boys or men reading this might be thinking, Ancient world used to only support men, but in the modern world, why is everyone saying like, " Women can do anything" but they never say men can do anything.

Well yes, men also cry, men also like the colour pink, they also like dressing up in different styles etc. 

There is nothing like blue and pink  rules, there are only white rules.

White rules are equal to girls and boys.

So come on let  us follow the white set of rules and make the world a better place.

Unitl next time,

This is me Malavika

Bye bye